Saturday, 28 May 2016

Spain 2016 - Day 1

We were up early after arriving late last night. Henry was amazing on the plane and was so excited to arrive at his 'holiday house' that he's been talking about for weeks now! We unpacked and got ready and then went straight to Carrefour where we had breakfast and did a huge food shop to last us the week.
We then came home and took a snack up to the pool in the hope of having an hour's sunbathing time. No such luck; Henry was straight in the pool and the only thing that tempted him out was a Kinder egg, and even then he was straight back in afterwards. Not so relaxing for mummy but he's getting so much more confident in the water and he absolutely loved throwing himself in from the sides and swimming up and down. 
We had a lovely lunch on the terrace before a long siesta in bed. A proper Spanish treat. 
As soon as we got up we got ready to head to the beach. We sat in a little beach club on the sand, ate ice creams, had drinks and enjoyed a couple of hours of sunshine whilst Henry played on the beach. He's absolutely in his element digging in the sand, collecting shells and paddling in the water and we had a lovely few hours before coming home for bath and shower time.
We got ready for dinner (Henry thought it was very odd to be having a bath and not going straight to bed after it) and went to a little Italian just down the road from the apartment. I had a Spanish tuna salad, one of my favourite things to eat in Spain, and a huge bowl of pasta. Henry demolished  his pasta and lots of olives too and after we'd all finished we brought a very tired boy home for stories in his pyjamas on the terrace. There were loads of swallows darting around the sky and he loved watching them as the sun was setting.
Off to bed now for a nice early night. We're off to the market bright and early in the morning.




Tuesday, 24 May 2016

26 weeks pregnant

How far along? 26weeks 

Baby is...the size of a lettuce 

Stretch marks?  Not yet and the bump has had a major growth spurt this week so that's good news.

Sleep: pretty decent but I'm exhausted. Really really tired this week.

Best moment this week: Turning 29 and knowing that the last year of my twenties will be an exciting one! That and receiving a maternity spa package from my mum that I absolutely cannot wait for!

Miss anything? Not aching. I'm ridiculously sore, sometimes to the point of tears by the end of the day. It's not so much my hips as my pelvis and back, totally agony. I'm currently writing this from a warm bath which I'm hoping will help with tonight's aches and pains. 

Food cravings: Anything juicy and I've been eating lots of Mars Ice Creams since Mr B bought a box for the freezer! 

Anything making you queasy or sick?  Nothing 

Gender: I think boy now, I can't imagine having a little girl and often find myself referring to Henry and his sibling as 'the boys'. It's such a lovely surprise, I really can't wait to find out. 

Symptoms: Super tired and full of aches and pains. Roll on maternity leave and daily naps! 

Mood: Emotional and pretty grumpy at times. Nesting instinct seems to be kicking in and I need my children's rooms sorting and I need them doing NOW. Hopefully Mr B will get the majority of the DIY done next week whilst I'm away so I can just do all the finishing touches once I'm back. 

Looking forward to: our holiday, only 2 days to go!! 

A comparison of bumps at 22, 25 and 26 weeks 




Thursday, 19 May 2016

Henry at 2 and a half

This blog post is now 2 whole months late, but 2 and a half sounds better than 2 and 2 thirds so I'm going to have to just go with it. Here's a little update on my beautiful big boy...

Weight: Henry now weighs 30lb and he's 93cm tall. Pretty much 50th centile for both so bang on average still. His feet are a size 7 and growing rapidly, just like they did last summer! He costs me a fortune in sandals, jelly shoes and converse this boy! 

Routine: Henry wakes around 7am and goes to bed about 8pm. He still very much needs his afternoon sleep but can just about cope without it on days when we don't manage one or we're super busy. He'll be really grumpy by 6pm but an early bath and bed soon sorts him out. His naps are generally a couple of hours, sometimes a little longer or shorter depending on where we are. Now that I'm pregnant (and therefore totally exhausted) I've been sleeping at the same time as him most afternoons so it's definitely a blessing that he's still happy to nap. I say happy, but every day he tells me he doesn't like his sleeps, then promptly falls asleep seconds later!

Food: He's still an amazing little eater; he eats like a horse and will pretty much eat anything. We've always been pretty strict with food in so much as we always eat the same thing together every night, I've never made him his own separate dinner and he knows if he doesn't eat what he gets, there isn't another option. And for a hungry horse like Henry that's enough to ensure he'll eat whatever's put in front of him! Of course he has his favourites, he tells us every single day that he doesn't want cereal, he wants toast, but then eats every spoonful of the cereal that's given to him. He'd choose berries over any other food and absolutely loves beef, sausages or anything meaty! He's started to enjoy his veggies more recently thanks to the herbivore dinosaurs like brachiosaurus and diplodocus who he loves....apparently if they eat broccoli (or trees) then it's good enough for him too!! Sugar snaps have been named dinosaur peas which makes them a total hit and he even had his first ever fillet steak last week which apparently made him like T Rex. Boys! He adores the butcher in the farm shop who is absolutely lovely to him and enjoys his weekly chat with him, telling him that mummy needs 'mince beef and sausages please' before regaling the poor man with his knowledge of 'pigs make sausages, cows make beef etc etc'. He's definitely a littla foodie. The other thing he loves is to cook. On the days where he can't really help me, he stands on a chair in the kitchen at the hob with a pan of cold water making 'soup' - an interesting concoction of bread crusts and vegetable peelings which he's cut into small pieces. Very appetising. He also makes bread with his Marmar most days and is always so proud of his finished loaf, declaring it 'absolutely perfect' as it comes out.

Sleep: His sleep isn't too bad really. He is now in a proper single bed and will usually sleep in his room until around 3am before coming up to our bed. I usually sleep with him in the spare room at that point so that we can all get a few more hours before getting up! Daddy's snoring mixed with a toddler literally lying with his feet in my mouth and fingers in my ears isn't all that conducive to good sleep I can tell you. 

Sizes: He is in a range of clothes now from 18-24 month things to age 3-4 things. There is a massive variation in the shops and he still fits in a lot of his old stuff which is great. He's out of nappies but in pull ups at night and they're size 5.

Milestones/other random things 

Back in September I wrote that I was really concerned by his lack of speech but within weeks, literally weeks, he was forming full sentences and chatting away. I'm constantly amazed by what he can say and words that he's remembered, we have whole conversations now and he forms proper full sentences. He still gets me/I/my and us/we mixed up, but apart from that makes pretty good sense. He says the most gorgeous things, there's something every day that makes us smile or laugh. A couple of days ago he said to me "Come and see my girl" referring to my old gran who was sitting in the lounge. He absolutely adores 'his friend Rose' and their relationship is so so lovely, especially when her dementia means that her other relationships are very different to how they were in the past. The fact that Henry calls her 'his girl' is just gorgeous. Yesterday morning it was pouring with rain and he was most concerned by the fields of lambs and mummy sheep so shouted to them, "Don't worry sheep, farmer coming soon to take you to the barn. Can have some hay there. Farmer just finishing his tea, don't worry" before telling me that the farmer would take his favourite horse Harry an umbrella down to his field to keep him dry! 

• Speaking of horses and umbrellas, his imagination is utterly amazing. He is constantly role playing and no object is as it seems. His piggy bank is a pizza oven, the coins inside are pizzas, a piece of semi circular rainbow puzzle is his petrol pump  (the green piece, because mummy gets green petrol from the garage!), a roll of wrapping paper is obviously a sword and his box of plastic eggs are clearly dinosaur eggs which need protecting from the vicious didelphodons who like to eat dinosaur eggs. Poor George the dog gets to the play the part of the didelphodon!! We have 'picnic adventures' every night and play airports pretty much every day. He amazes me at the things he comes out with and it's been so so lovely to see his imagination really come out over the last few months. Unfortunately, being a typical little boy, everything is also a gun. A wooden block, a tv remote and even a chicken wing have been used as pretend guns in the last few weeks.

• He now has a full set of teeth! Woo hoo! Now for about a year off from teething before baby number two starts. Fantastic.

• He loves to read and knows so many of his books off my heart now so he actually ends up reading to me at bedtime. Probably my favourite time of the day. 

• He's now eating all milk and egg, raw, uncooked, the lot. So bloody glad to see the back of those allergies!!

• He is still beyond laid back and really really easy. I could count any proper tantrums he's had on one hand and he really hates us being upset with him. If we tell him off or tell him he's made us sad, he immediately starts to cry and says he's sorry. He's super polite and people comment on it all the time, he always always says please and thank you and even went through a phase of saying 'thank you sir' to everyone...we later discovered it was because that's what everyone says to the Fat Controller in Thomas the Tank!

• He's still a proper farm boy, never happier than when he's knee deep in mud and surrounded by animals! He loves going to any farm and tells us that his favourite animals are 'big horses'! He loves being outside, whether it's in the garden pottering around hunting for snails or out with his scooter. He still loves Toy Story but his other favourite films are Ratatouille and Up. We watch Andy and his Dinosaur Adventures ALL the time and he still loves Peppa Pig too. Dinosaurs are suddenly a big hit in our house and the facts that he's picked up already are astonishing. Just yesterday we were playing dinosaurs on the floor, me crawling round after him, him roaring in my face (fun times when you're 6 months pregnant) and he told me I was a diplodocus and he was T Rex. I told him I was coming to eat him up and he laughed and said "Don't be silly mummy, diplodocus only eats plants, not little boys!" He thinks the fact that I can't tell my allosaurus from my T Rex absolutely hilarious too....I really ought to pay more attention to Andy next time he's on tv! 

• Henry absolutely adores babies. All babies. At playgroups or soft play when the other children are running off exploring, Henry will be sat next to a car seat tickling the feet of a little baby. He shoved his head into a random pram a few weeks back and shouted 'ahhh it's my sister!' and he has a real thing for our friend's little girl 'Baby Martha'. He can't wait to be a big brother and has nicknamed this baby 'Simba'. We've suggested names to him but he is adamant that we'll be calling him or her Simba....I have a feeling it's a nickname that's going to stick!! He talks to my tummy, feels for kicks and tells Simba about all of his toys that he wants to share. I'm under no illusions that having two will be easy and I'm sure he might be really jealous, but I have no doubts at all that he's going to adore 'his' baby more than anything.

• He can count to 15 really well and counts objects really reliably and accurately now. He can recognise a few numbers (generally the ones we see in lifts that I tell him to press!) and spends his days counting random things! I definitely think he's going to be a numbers boy when he gets to school. He knows all of his colours now too and recognises circles, squares and triangles in books and on objects etc. 

• We potty trained him on Boxing Day so he was 27 months and he did so well. Within a week he was totally dry at home and he's only had 2 or 3 accidents at home since then. Being out and about was a little bit harder in terms of accidents so he's generally been wearing pull ups for when we're out for long periods of time, just in case. He's pretty much there now, accidents are few and far between and he's dry most nights too, probably 6 nights out of 7. The end is definitely in sight.

That's about it for this update I think, I just can't believe how big he's getting every day. We are so beyond proud of him and what a beautiful, kind little boy he's turning into and the amount of laughter and happiness that he's brought to our lives is beyond measure. I never once doubted that I'd love him before he was born but I honestly never ever anticipated these feelings that I have for him. 

We love you so so much little Pigwidgeon, now if you could stop growing up so quickly that'd be great!






Tuesday, 17 May 2016

25 weeks pregnant

I'm absolutely terrible at updating this blog weekly....pregnancy is definitely different this time now that I have a toddler in tow. Here's my 25 week update anyway, better late than never!!

How far along? 25 weeks 

Baby is...the size of a cauliflower 

Weight gain? Ugh yes, weighed myself and I'm about a stone and a half heavier than pre-pregnancy. 

Stretch marks?  Not yet, bio oil is still working its magic

Sleep: Pretty good, I'm not waking up for hours during the night like I was a few weeks back so that's a bonus.

Best moment this week: All the kicks Daddy and Henry have had. Henry's little eyes light up when he feels something and he grins up at me. Also reaching 24 weeks is a big milestone, so called 'viability' and a baby that has a decent chance of survival if born now. Let's hope he/she waits another 15 weeks though! 

Miss anything? Now that we've had some warmer weather I've definitely fancied a cold glass of wine or two in the garden on an evening. 

Food cravings: Strawberries, Discos crisps and sherbet 

Anything making you queasy or sick?  Nothing really.

Labour signs? Still lots of braxton hicks 

Gender: Not a clue, but we finally have a definite name for a boy and a girl which is lovely, it's nice to be able to imagine what we'll call our baby when they're here.

Symptoms: Really sore hips and pelvis most days, some worse than others. But other than that, nothing!!

Mood: Pretty good

Looking forward to: a week in Spain in a couple of weeks. Looking forward to getting a bit of a tan and giving my baby belly some sunshine too.





Thursday, 28 April 2016

22 weeks pregnant

How far along? 22 weeks 

Baby is...the size of a papaya

Maternity clothes? Meh, I hate how little I have to wear. All of my clothes from last time are summery things and I'm not prepared for the snow that we've had this week at all. I currently have one jumper that fits which certainly isn't ideal in this weather. Once I can live in summer dresses it'll be absolutely fine. Until then though, I'm going to moan! 

Stretch marks?  No, thank god.

Sleep: Can't complain. Henry's finally sleeping in his bed until around 3am most nights and then coming upstairs to us but I can live with that. We've had months of him waking at 11pm so 3am is  a real treat! I'm also napping with him for a couple of hours every afternoon.

Best moment this week: Hearing baby's heartbeat at my midwife appointment. Coupled with plenty of lovely strong kicks and I feel a lot more reassured that all is well in there.

Miss anything?  Not aching like an 80 year old lady when I stand up. The aches and pains have been really awful this time around.

Food cravings: Salt and vinegar Discos and sherbert. Things to make my tongue properly sting! Still loving anything that's really strongly flavoured.

Anything making you queasy or sick? No! Wahoo! 

Labour signs? Still plenty of braxton hicks but luckily nothing more.

Gender: Still no idea!

Symptoms: So achey all the time now. Really awful hip/pelvic pain most of the day, particularly when getting up from a chair or bed. It just feels like someone has kicked me really hard between the legs and I have one hip which is permanently clicky and sore.

Mood: Emotional but happy. 

Looking forward to: Daddy finally getting a kick. Every night that we've gone to bed at the same time Simba seems to to all shy and refuses to kick! Other nights I'm awake for ages with massive kicks and rolls. 




Saturday, 23 April 2016

What we ate weekend

Daddy has been to Wembley to watch Crystal Palace this weekend so it was just me and my favourite little one in the house. I haven't done a 'what I ate' post in ages so thought I'd do one this weekend.


Breakfast
Henry had mini shredded wheats with berries and I had porridge with berries. Why does porridge taste so much better when it's done in the pan rather than in the microwave? This was exactly what we fancied this morning. We both had orange juice too and I had a cup of decaf tea.

Lunch
After we dropped daddy at the station we called into Knitlsey farm shop which is Henry's favourite place at the moment; he absolutely loves to see the pigs and have a little chat with his friend the butcher too. We picked up a sausage roll for Henry's lunch and a creamy chicken and bacon pie for me. They were warm and fresh out of the oven and we ate them with salad.

Dinner
We went shopping after nap time for a few holiday essentials so stopped for tea while we were there. Henry had the fish noodles with amai sauce and I had the teriyaki chicken donburi with brown rice. He's such lovely company these days, chatting away and devouring his dinner when it arrived.  

On Sunday morning we met my mum for brunch at Broom House Farm. Henry had a 'little farmer's breakfast' and I had a bacon sandwich. Super delicious. It was all devoured by the time I even thought to take a photo but here's my happy boy on the hay bales outside afterwards:

For dinner we made a mild fruity curry which was an Annabel Karmel recipe. Henry loved helping and ate a huge plate full when it was done. After his first mouthful he declared that it was 'blooming marvellous'! It contained loads of veggies and also raisins and apple and we'll definitely be making it again soon.






Wednesday, 13 April 2016

20 weeks pregnant

Apologies for the lack of update in the last few weeks, we've been super busy with Easter holidays and fun days out, moving and building furniture and trying to get a little bit more organised!! We also had our 20 week scan this week and all was well there, it was lovely to see how much our baby had grown since the last scan and it's all getting a bit exciting now we're at the half way point! 

How far along? 20 weeks 

Baby is...the size of a banana

Maternity clothes? Of course. This week I've been loving a hand-me-down maternity swimming costume from my friend. I started aquanatal and it was so nice wearing a decent costume rather than my plain, ugly one from last time around. 

Stretch marks?  Not yet, hoping they stay away!

Sleep: Not bad. Henry's sleeping well this week after getting his first ever proper bed and he's had a couple of sleepovers at my mum's too so we've had some decent sleep this week. 

Best moment this week: Our scan; seeing our little one again and getting to the half way mark. I've also been feeling movement a lot more in the last 3 or 4 weeks and have felt a few kicks from the outside too. Movement and kicks and my absolutely favourite part of pregnancy.

Miss anything?  Nothing 

Food cravings: Nothing in particular this week really, I'm trying to be a little healthier now that I don't feel sick anymore and therefore don't need to live on salt and vinegar crisps and rice cakes!

Anything making you queasy or sick?  Just hunger really which is a massive relief after a hideous first trimester.

Labour signs? Lots of braxton hicks, particularly at night. Not a labour sign as such, but my body getting some practice in for in 20 weeks time! 

Gender: No idea. I think girl now, Henry is adamant it's a brother for him though!! It was weird at our scan knowing we could ask the sonographer to look but we didn't ask and she didn't look either so we now have a long 20 week wait before finding out! 

Symptoms: Headaches, tiredness and really achey if I've overdone it (which isn't hard with a toddler around!).

Mood: Generally good, really emotional but happy and excited finally! 

Looking forward to: this bump getting bigger and daddy being able to feel some kicks too.

My first aquanatal class